Dave,
I just read about your personal travails and I'm sorry to hear it. Regarding my Garbini request, answer whenever you can.
I have a very good mechanic friend of mine that literally just went through the same situation, with only one daughter. The loss of sleep and everything else took a huge toll on him, plus he owns his own business. Several of us helped him out the best we could, and he's finally recovering, both emotionally and financially [business really suffered]. Although we've never met [or even spoke on the phone], I wish you the best now and in the future.
Regards,
Ted