Had the wife try maybe 10 different handguns to find something she can manipulate the controls on. The G43 and Shield worked, but strong springs in these small blasters make them snappy and difficult to rack. VP 9 felt good but was a bit too heavy and after a half hour her arms and wrists were failing. She is now using a small Sig P320, but again the weight is an issue. I'd like to hear your thoughts on something like a P30sk. I definitely want to keep it 9mm. Thanks in advance!